Defeating Your Gremlin for Network Marketing Success

The Gremlin is that scared voice inside you desiring the status quo, wanting to avoid change. It can be a powerful and persistent voice inside you keeping you from succeeding in building your network marketing residual income.

The Gremlin boils down to fear of the unknown or lack of clarity of how to do something, or thinking “what if I fail?” Or even, “what if I succeed!”

It is important to figure out what it is that getting beyong your Gremlin will get you. You design the blank slate. What have you always wanted to do?

The Gremlin is the mental blocks, many of which are around your beliefs. You may believe that people will make fun of you, leave your business, not join your business.

Beliefs are the made-up rules than run our lives. If you take out the “f” you are left with “be-lies“. These are the untruths that keep us from being at our best. We build expectations and our lives around our be-lies. How about if we change that and build our lives around our truths!

So how do we do that? One way is to write your “be-lie” on a piece of paper and then write your new truth. Carry it around with you everywhere and read it three times a day.

Why not write your “be-lies” a Dear John letter. For example:

Thank you for supporting me all these years. I no longer need you. I’m letting you go. What’s true for me now is (your new truth).

Sounds hokey? But what if it works! This is another way of training your subconscious by replacing the untruth with the truth.

Another thing you can do is write down your “be-lie” and burn it, or cast it away in a body of water, or even flush it away.

Wishing you mlm residual income success by defeating your Gremlin,

Wendy Weber, the Singing Network Marketer
602-404-1626
E-mail Wendy
www.wendywebermentor.com
“Be a Mentor with a Servant’s Heart”

Do you ever find yourself telling yourself that you should be stronger, you shouldn’t be so needy, you’re not ready…? Or perhaps you tell yourself that “they” won’t like it if I do…, I don’t have what they’re looking for, nobody will listen to me, I need to think more, I have nothing to offer anyone.

In the coaching world you have just met the Gremlin. Actually, the Gremlin has been around all our lives. Sometimes the Gremlin controls us to a greater or lesser extent. Often we just let him do that.

The Gremlin is scared most of the time. He does not like change. He will ridicule you for wanting change. Getting out of your comfort zone is threatening to the Gremlin. The Gremlin is the name for whatever is blocking you, whatever is holding you back.

How do we defeat our own Gremlin? First by being aware of her. When you get that feeling that you are reluctant to do something you know will help you create mlm residual income success, it’s likely your Gremlin rearing her ugly head.

One strategy is to name your Gremlin. For instance, if you called your Gremlin “Shirley” that name does not sound as powerful as “THE GREMLIN”. It does not sound so big and scary, but more friendly, less powerful. Do you want to let “Shirley” have power over you? When you don’t want to do something, ask yourself if it is YOU talking or SHIRLEY talking.

Will we ever get rid of our own Shirley? Probably not, but we can control her. Please look for more strategies on controlling your Gremlin next time. Until then -

Wishing you network marketing success -

Wendy Weber, the Singing Network Marketer
602-404-1626
E-mail Wendy
www.wendywebermentor.com
“Be a Mentor with a Servant’s Heart”