I struggled for years with a great mlm company but didn’t know how to get the skills for network marketing success.

The  information, even their “university” didn’t help.  I bought every CD, every book, supported every speaker at the meetings and conventions by buying their knowledge and personal growth products.  A compulsive note-taker, I have notebooks of notes.  None of this helped me.  I even took a class at an online, on-phone “unversity”.  The same non-working (for me and many others) skills were taught.  I spent thousands of dollars.

Can you relate?

A lot of this information taught manipulative closing techniques, “counter objection” statements, oh, and I might want to pseudo build a relationship, too.  Of course, there’s the classic “take away” method based on fear of loss.  That one can be very effective, but people feel badly about that later and tend to avoid you like the plague.

And because I was unsuccessful, I thought there was something wrong with me.

When I learned these things I had an “uh-oh” feeling – I have since learned to listen to and trust that feeling.  It’s never wrong.  But I was brainwashed and thought that was the only way to go.  After all, the great leaders in the company taught those techniques.

I didn’t know then that this was an archaic and, for most of the population, an ineffective, not to mention, an uncomfortable way to go.  It is not destined to build large organizations with little turnover.  Most people can’t duplicate it.

And what is network marketing at it’s best, if not only real long term success?  Duplication.  I don’t know about you, but I don’t want to work forever, as people have to do with most companies.  I want to build it to work without me and retire to do other projects and spend time with my grandchildren, assuming I ever have any.

When I found out my lack of success was not my fault at first I was angry because I had put so much time, effort, and money learning those non-workable pseudo skills.  And then I was relieved.  I’m a college graduate, knew how to learn, why wouldn’t it work?  It was the wrong stuff!

So do you want to know how to get the skills for network marketing success that really work?  Maybe where to get them would be more to the point.

I can teach a number of the skills, but the best place is Mentoring for Free.  It really is free and the mentors teaching these skills are building their businesses using them.  There are 10 free, live skills calls every week, most interactive, so you can ask questions.  Thursday at 3:00 pm Eastern is a call teaching how to get leads for free or low cost.  Wednesdays you’ll find the Mental Cleanse call – a mastermind that helps so many people heal themselves and achieve successful personal growth.  Tuesday there is another marketing skills call. Saturday nights there is a skills call that is not interactive but very valuable, and later Saturday night is another personal growth call, the Coaches Corner Mastermind.

I’ve learned the right skills and still get mentored myself – for free.  I’ve learned to trust myself again, to be grateful for everything I have, and to belive, actually, know that I have been failing forward and am where I need to be right now.

Contact me if you’re interested in helping yourself and learning these skills crucial to your success.

Wishing you the knowledge of how to get the skills for network marketing success,

Wendy Weber, The Singing Network Marketer
602-404-1626 – Anytime
E-mail Wendy
www.wendywebermentor.com
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